I think you misinterpreted the question. It was how does someone handle the situation where no bakers (plural, not just one) will serve them for something like racial reasons. Do they just have to suck it up and go through life not using a baker? What about grocery stores, or mechanics?
I didn't misinterpret your question at all, I just chose to equivocate rather than answer you directly. ;)
What you are asking is a question of gays or lesbians living and surviving in a place that has something like institutional racism or segregation setup against them and where services are denied to them. Does such a place exist in the states today?
