Typically you don't want to require authenticated encryption for all outgoing email as many mail servers use certificates that are self-signed or otherwise appear invalid. It isn't as simple as it seems and isn't generally recommended.
When I checked in 2024 (https://alexsci.com/blog/is-email-confidential-in-transit-ye...), Cloudflare had more domains using DANE than Microsoft. But you're right, DANE is not widely adopted. Lack of support by Google is most notable due to the large number of domains using their service.
I might add that if you want to enforce SMTP TLS, you can do just that without mta-sts or DANE.