I really really wanted to like the Django ORM, I was going to use the very nice django admin as a quick replacement of the administrative tools we had for an existing database. The ORM just couldn't keep up with anything but the lowest common denominator of database design. I think this comment really nails the difference:
The way I try to think of it is, Django's ORM was designed for web applications, and SQLAlchemy was designed for databases.
The way I try to think of it is, Django's ORM was designed for web applications, and SQLAlchemy was designed for databases.