Unfortunately, your type of attitude is precisely the problem. You deny a problem exists, attack anyone who suggests fixing it, and resort to questioning character and intelligence.
I'm sorry that this topic is making you angry. But sometimes it's important to hear other voices. In your case, instead of making a wager, why don't you simply talk to some of your female friends. You don't need to "poll" them, just have a friendly conversation. Don't ask them whether they can "handle" it, but what they would prefer.
Your eyes might be opened.
I'm talking from actual diverse workplace experiences with issues like this. You don't appear to be, or else I don't think you'd be saying the things you are.
I don't suggest that you take my opinion as the final word, either. It's a complex issue, and nuanced discussion is necessary and should not be vetoed by a single voice.
And to be sure, I largely
agree with the woman in question: there are much bigger problems at hand. But as stated, the effort level required to discontinue using lena.jpg is zero.
My first programming job was for a media processing company, and we used the Lena image, and it’s origin was well known, and we were mostly young men so we all found copies of the entire shoot, and they were occasionally involved in office pranks. None of us learned it from HN/Reddit because those weren’t things in 2000.
I cannot imagine it was a welcoming environment for women.
As a woman in tech, it's actually the discussions surrounding this proposal that I find most telling. The use of Lena is a waterline. Most women (my personal standpoint bias) probably find it inoffensive at face value, and vaguely grating when they learn that it's a centerfold. It's a reminder of a time when porn in the workplace was rather common; one component of a baseline of inescapable sexual harrassment.
We've made progress, and sexual harrassment is less socially acceptable now. Some of us would like to erase that waterline, because it's a reminder of an ugly past. But what of the people, mostly men, who cling furiously to using that image? They make me uncomfortable, because it's an indicator of where they stand on pervasive sexual harrassment.
Unlike changing terms like master/slave etc, this is a zero-cost proposal (where those are very nearly zero themselves, but more pervasive). Replace the image with something that's got high contrast and color variation. I'd say you can even keep the old name so it won't impact your tooling.
I hope I can weigh in here as a woman (and I do not think my opinion carries any special weight). I don't mind the image, but I definitely do not cling to it - in fact, I wouldn't mind if it's gone at all, and I would treat as suspect someone who continually argues for its place in tech. Engineering is engineering, and porn is porn.
That doesn't stop the bizarre campaign linked in your post from being rather hyperbolic. The entire premise is that by removing this one image from common use, "millions of women" (their own phrasing in the trailer) will be empowered to pursue and feel welcomed in tech.
The presence of the image (some arguments can be put aside for a moment[0]) is a symptom, not (as far as I can tell) a cause. A campaign like this (and what methods and to whom it is addressed is not clear) would serve better to give a false sense of victory over sexism in tech. Getting the image unused isn't a "small win", I'd say it's detached completely from the battle. A total inversion of the problem, almost comically.
[0] Often people argue for things out of sheer principle, not caring much for the specifics of the matter. This is especially common, in my experience, in tech circles. However, there are interesting questions raised vis-a-vis the intersection of meaning, intention, and purpose. It is suspect to cling to 'original meanings' and intentions, and on the basis of that argument, some could well make the argument that the image is empowering as an inversion of traditional morality against sexual expression which still holds sway in conservative groups today. Just as a slave from the 19th c. would understand 'slave' in Git to refer to them, the Victorian puritan would consider the cropped Lena an abhorrent and obscene reference. They would be happy to see the terminology and image gone, but totally miss out on their situational context.
It's telling that you think this is something that would even annoy most women, especially in a professional non-dating context. The women I know would feel creeped out if someone did that at work. Honestly, even in dating if you're "racing" to open the door it looks desperate. When done naturally some women like it and some think it's archaic.
I'm sorry you have to endure such an antagonistic social environment. Where I live (midwest US), it's considered polite for all people hold the door open for all others, regardless of gender.
I'm a male and if I worked in a place where women sneered at me for holding the door for them, I guess I would start only holding the door for men.
Holding the door open for all genders is widely seen as polite and fine, for whoever arrives at the door first, man or woman. It's an optional courtesy.
Having a man "race over" to hold a door, and doing so because they're a woman where he wouldn't for another man, in a professional context, is creepy and weird.
Do you see the difference? What you're describing in the midwest is fine. But it's not what the parent was responding to. The "antagonistic social environment" with "women sneering" you're describing is a total straw-man of your own imagination.
